ENGKO NAK CARI PEREMPUAN YANG ELOK AKHLAK, ENGKO LELAKI KENA UBAH PERANGAI DULU BARU NAK DEMAND MACAM-MACAM.

 

Pening dengan pasangan yang selalu cari kesalahan anda? Asyik bergaduh walau masalah remeh? Agaknya kenapa situasi ini boleh berlaku?

Haaa….jangan nak tunding jari mana-mana pihak. Cuba baca perkongsian ini, in shaa Allah anda akan dapat jawapan.

 

Seorang teman merasakan isterinya semakin lama semakin mementingkan diri sendiri dan kasar. Kerana itu, mereka bertengkar setiap hari.

Atas alasan seringnya bertengkar, lelaki ini mempunyai hubungan intim. Akhirnya, mereka bercerai dan sang suami berkahwin lagi dengan wanita skandalnya. Sang mantan isteripun tak lama kemudian berkahwin lagi.

Mereka masih belum dikurniakan anak. perkahwinan baru keduanya masing masing berjalan dengan sangat lancar. Tetapi selepas berkahwin, isteri baru dari lelaki ini semakin lama sekalipun kelembutannya semakin pudar. Rumah tangga mereka berakhir sama seperti yg dulu, sedikit sedikit bertengkar. Isteri barunya bahkan tidak mau mengerjakan pekerjaan rumah, rakan saya terpaksa membersihkan rumah sendiri.Rakan saya merasa nasibnya tidak baik, mengapa ia selalu memilih isteri yg kurang baik, setiap hari ia mengeluh. Sampai suatu hari, di suatu majlis makan malam ia secara kebetulan bertemu dengan suami baru bekas isterinya.

Pada awalnya kedua lelaki ini tidak bercakap apa apa, tetapi setelah saling menyapa mereka pun minum bersama. Akhirnya rakan saya tak boleh menahan diri lagi dan bertanya bagaimana keadaan rumah tangga mereka. Suami baru bekas isterinya ini tidak kacak, tetapi sangat teliti dalam berbicara.

Ia berkata,Isteri saya adalah wanita yg sangat hebat, sangat perihatin dan lembut, ia mengerjakan seluruh pekerjaan rumah tanpa mengeluh. Juga sangat menyayangi saya, ia sentiasa bersikap baik kepada ibu bapa, saudara, dan teman teman saya. Saatnya jujur dia akan jujur, saatnya butuh perhatian, dia akan memberi perhatian penuh. Wanita seperti ini, sudah sedikit sekali. Teman saya setelah mendengarnya merasa bingung, dan berfikir apa dia memang sebaik itu? Mengapa dulu ia sama sekali tidak menyedarinya? Pasti ini semua cuma bualan suami baru isterinya ini untuk membuat dia bingung.

Tak lama kemudian, kebetulan sekali, rakan saya pergi berbelanja ke pasar raya dan melihat bekas isteri dan suami barunya sedang membeli-belah.
Dia bersembunyi dan memerhatikan, akhirnya ia menyedari pasangan itu benar benar bahagia. Kebahagian itu boleh dilihat dari senyuman bekas isterinya yg selalu mekar. Juga boleh dilihat dari pelukan lembut yg diberikan oleh lelaki di sebelahnya itu.Sebenarnya, di bermacam situasi, isteri berubah menjadi malaikat atau berubah menjadi nenek sihir, semua bergantung pada lelaki.Pada detik wanita memutuskan untuk berkahwin, dia juga memutuskan untuk menjalani hidup dengan bahagia bersama suaminya.Walaupun dalam perkahwinan, kesabaran merupakan suatu kebajikan, tetapi jika ada cinta maka ada toleransi.

Saat anda merasa tidak puas dengan wanita anda, wanita pun tidak peduli lagi. Jadi, jika anda mahukan wanita baik seperti malaikat, terlebih dahulu perlakukan dia sebagai malaikat.Kerana semua wanita di dunia yang sudah menjadi ;”isteri seseorang”; mempunyai potensi menjadi malaikat. Saat anda boleh melakukannya dengan baik, anda akan menyedari bahawa perubahan sikap anda dapat membentuk sesosok malaikat yg sempurna. Cinta wanita muncul kerana kasih sayang lelaki, Kebencian wanita muncul kerana kebohongan lelaki; Keluhan wanita muncul kerana kedinginan lelaki. Kebahagiaan wanita muncul kerana kehangatan lelaki. Kecantikan wanita muncul kerana dimanjakan lelaki. Kerosakan wanita adalah hutang lelaki.

Wanita adalah sebuah piano, jika bertemu dengan seorang pemain piano handal, suara yg dihasilkan adalah lagu kelas dunia, jika dimainkan oleh orang biasa, maka akan menghasilkan lagu pop, tetapi apabila dimainkan oleh orang sembarangan, pasti tidak akan membentuk sebuah lagu.

Umpama satu peribahasa melayu, “bagaimana acuan, begitulah kuihnya.”

Gambar sekadar hiasan

ENGLISH

Dizziness with a partner who always finds your mistake? Is it fun to struggle with trivial issues? Presumably why this situation can happen?

Haaa …. do not want to tackle the finger of any party. Try reading this partnership, in shaa your God will be able to answer.

A friend feels that his wife is increasingly selfish and harsh. Because of this, they quarrel every day.

On the grounds of frequent quarrels, this man has an intimate relationship. Finally, they are divorced and the husband marries again with her scandals. The former wife soon got married again.

They still have not been given children. The new marriage both runs very smoothly. But after getting married, the new wife of this man grows longer even though his tenderness fades. Their household ends just like the old ones, a little bit controversial. His new wife did not even want to do homework, my friend had to clean my own house. I feel that his fate is not good, why he always chooses a bad wife, every day he complains. Until one day, at a dinner he coincidentally met a new husband of his ex-wife.

At first these two men did not say anything, but after greeting each other they were drinking together. Eventually my friend can not refrain and ask how their household is. The new husband of his ex-wife was not handsome, but very careful in speaking.

She said, My wife is a great woman, very caring and gentle, she does all the homework without complaining. Also very loving to me, he is always kind to my parents, relatives, and friends. It’s time to be honest she’ll be honest, it’s time to take care, she’ll pay full attention. Women like this, are very few. My friend after hearing her feel confused, and thinks she is as good as that? Why did he not realize it at all? It must have been all that new husband’s husband made to make her confused.

Soon after all, coincidentally, my friend went shopping for a supermarket and saw his former wife and husband shopping.
She hid and watched, eventually she realized the couple was really happy. That happiness can be seen from the smiles of his former ex-wife. It can also be seen from the gentle embrace given by the man next to it. Actually, in a variety of situations, the wife turns into an angel or turns into a magic grandmother, all dependent on men. At the moment she decides to get married, she also decides to live happily with her husband. Although in marriage, patience is a virtue, but if there is love then there is tolerance.

When you feel dissatisfied with your woman, the woman does not care anymore. So, if you want a good woman like an angel, first treat her as an angel. Because of all the women in the world that have become “a man’s wife”; has the potential to be an angel. When you can do well, you will realize that changing your attitude can shape a perfect angel. Woman’s love emerged because of male affection, Women’s hatred arose because of men’s lies; Women’s complaints arise because of the cold of men. Women’s happiness comes from the warmth of men. Women’s beauty comes from being pampered by men. Women’s damages are male debt.

Woman is a piano, if you meet a pianist, the sound produced is a world class song, if it is played by an ordinary person, it will produce a pop song, but when played by an arbitrary person, it will not form a song.

For example, a Malay proverb, “how the mold, that’s the cake.”

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *